MKE Week 3 – No Longer a Fraud

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I have to admit, when we first started doing our chore cards, I was thinking: “I don’t get it? HOW is this going to help us live our ideal lives?” I could feel resistance building up, but I persisted and followed the directions and did my best to stay open minded.

Eureka! Now I get it! Finishing my chore early last Tuesday gave me such a sense of accomplishment, but more importantly, it made me realize how up until now I have been telling myself that I am NOT one who finishes what I start, therefore, not a reliable person, not authentic, not trustworthy, with no integrity.

I was so proud of this simple chore completion! And I was surprised at my giddiness. For the remainder of the week, as I noticed all the blues and rectangles, and blue rectangles, I linked those shapes and colors to the statement “I DO finish what I set out to do!” “I DO keep my promises!” “I am trustworthy!” “I am so proud of myself!”

Now I find myself looking forward to finding the shapes and colors, on reading the BPB and my DMP’s, and all our other homework tasks. I am building new habits! And it makes my DMP more and more believable as I read it.

Remembering that my internal world and thoughts affect my outside world now helps me to stop negative thoughts that threaten to creep in within a second. I find myself guarding my peace with determination, and in term my outer world gets more peaceful day by day.

Meet Stefanie Hoffa

Stefanie is from SE Pennsylvania, a mother of three girls in college, who has a passion for helping women overcome their past and BECOME the women they were meant to be. She has a passion for health and wellness and loves spending time outdoors on the motorcycle with her fiance, Jake. Although a predominant Red who loves progress, Stefanie thinks of herself more as a "Purple" as she is almost as equally a Blue who values deep relationships with a splash of Yellow who loves to have fun, especially dancing!

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  • Congratulations on your EPIC discovery during your journey baby! So very PROUD of you & the patience & grace you have given yourself๐Ÿ’œ
    Golden Buddha ๐Ÿ˜‰

  • Amazing observtions as a result of simple exercises. Great job persisting to overcome the resistance and perhaps most importantly keeping an open mind.

  • Hi Stefanie, your last sentence is especially gratifying to read, as is your entire blog. From doubt, to pride in accomplishment. I am adopting your “I DO…” Thanks for the tip. You got this!

  • Wonderful Miss Stefanie, โ€œI DO finish what I set out to do!โ€ โ€œI DO keep my promises!โ€ โ€œI am trustworthy!โ€ โ€œI am so proud of myself!โ€

  • Amazing what a simple exercise can do, right? Imagine what you will accomplish in six months of simple exercises!

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