Ok…I admit it. I really don’t like change!! I know it’s heresy, that “the only constant there is is change” and yet there is a VAST disconnect between my rational mind – read left brain – and my emotional mind – read right brain. As with pretty much everything, pushing against it with all my might only intensifies things. Time for another quote – “Resistance is futile!” – read Star Trek Generations and the Borg.
I find the most effective way for me to come to a peaceful resolution is to embrace what I’m feeling at the moment. Somehow, that seems to let the air out of the emotional balloon and allows me to accept the circumstances in the present moment.
After all, if we want things to be different they have to change, right? And at the end of the day, that’s what all this is about.
Love the moment.